When it comes to manifesting love, the most frequent question I get asked is about attracting a specific person. It's fascinating how many people are drawn to the idea of manifesting a particular individual into their lives.
In fact, I believe that many discover the power of manifesting and the Law of Assumption and states of consciousness through this very topic!
The concept may seem a bit overwhelming at first, but once you grasp the basics, it starts to make perfect sense.
Think of different realities as various TV programs running simultaneously. You get to choose which program to watch, and similarly, you can decide which reality to experience. Whatever channel you are playing all of the other programs are still running until you choose to tune into them.
We are all connected at the source through states of consciousness, allowing us to manifest anything we desire.
Remember, you are the creator of your reality. Your identity is “I AM,” not “I CAN’T.”
And let’s talk about “Free Will” people only bring this up around this subject lets look at it this way…what happens when they are having constant arguments in their head with people or talking negatively about people and wondering why they keep behaving exactly how they “EXPECT” because those people have no choice to keep playing the role you give them. GOOD or BAD!
Think about it like this we communicate unconsciously or telepathically without realising it…so our thoughts are in fact never private therefore people have to behave how we expect them to.
And being honest most of the time the reason we get an unwanted version of others is because they are reflecting what we believe about ourself…eg not good enough etc. So changing this alone is often enough to get a different response from your specific person.
“Change your conception of yourself and you will automatically change the world in which you live. Do not try to change people; they are only messengers telling you who you are. Revalue yourself and they will confirm the change.”
― Neville Goddard
Neville Goddard, taught that everyone in your reality reflects your beliefs and assumptions. Simply put, people show up in your life exactly how you believe they will. If you think all guys are cheaters, you'll experience relationships with cheating. If you believe women can't be trusted, that's what you'll encounter. But if you believe people treat you with love and respect, that's how they'll treat you.
It’s why people go from one toxic relationship to another they think by changing the person they’ll change the outcome not realising if they’ve done nothing to change their awareness the next person will also be reflecting the same beliefs.
This highlights the importance of focusing on your beliefs about yourself. According to Neville, everything already exists in the present moment. Imagine each day is like you have a clean state and if you are struggling to let go of things from the past this is where I can help with very particular revision techniques.
The subconscious is not selective; it is impersonal and no respecter of persons. The subconscious is not concerned with the truth or falsity of your feeling. It always accepts as true that which you feel to be true. Feeling is the assent of the subconscious to the truth of that which is declared to be true. Because of this quality of the subconscious there is nothing impossible to man. Whatever the mind of man can conceive and feel as true, the subconscious can and must objectify. Your feelings create the pattern from which your world is fashioned, and a change of feeling is a change of pattern.
The subconscious never fails to express that which has been impressed upon it. Neville Goddard
There are infinite realities with every possible version of the past, present, and future. In one reality, you might be married to your person; in another, you're single. The reality your awareness goes to most is the one you manifest.
So ask yourself right now…where is my awareness going most of the time….and we don’t even need to focus on “THE Specific Person” Just our awareness of ourselves are we focusing on the deliciousness of feeling loved, adored, safe? Or the awareness of being unwanted, single, unhappy?
It’s why you could be in a beautiful relationship but keep focusing on the fact it might go wrong, you might be left single, hurt etc this is likely to manifest.
The Power of Letting Go or Detachment.
Interestingly, many people manifest a specific person back into their lives when they "give up."
This happens because they drop the sense of lack. Every possible outcome and scenario already exists in one of the infinite realities. This includes every possible version of every person you could meet.
Out of all these infinite possibilities, you experience the reality you imagine or focus most of your attention on. You are constantly selecting and shifting between realities based on your beliefs and assumptions. These determine the reality you move into and experience, or the “state” you dwell in. So you don’t have to forget about your person or let go of the desire as such…but to manifest your specific person effectively you do have to let go of the lack and detach from what is currently going on in your external circumstances and instead dwell in the state of already having what you desire.
For example if you were in a beautiful relationship and feeling safe, secure, loved etc you wouldn’t be constantly thinking “Why haven’t they text me?” or “Who are they with?” etc.
Manifesting a specific person doesn’t work by brainwashing, manipulating, or infringing upon anyone’s free will. People aren’t puppets to be controlled or forced to do what you say. Manifesting doesn’t work like that. It is however a reflection of your state of being….
Practical Steps to Manifest Love for a Specific Person
Shift Your Focus: Start by shifting your focus from the lack of your specific person to the presence of love in your life. Imagine and feel as if your desire has already manifested. (EMBODY THE STATE OF THE WISH FULFILLED)
Reprogram Your Beliefs: Identify any limiting beliefs that might be holding you back. Replace them with empowering beliefs that align with the reality you want to experience. This is something I can support you with.
Use Affirmations/Techniques: Affirmations and other techniques can help reprogram your subconscious mind and step into the “It’s already done” state. Use affirmations like "I am so loved, wanted and adored," "I am in a loving relationship with [specific person]," and "I am attracting love effortlessly." Just a reminder techniques are not to “Make” anything happen but to help move you into a state where you already have your desire!
Visualise: Spend time each day visualising yourself with your specific person. Feel the emotions of being in that loving relationship as if it is happening right now. You can use inner conversations but most of all do this because it feels good…not to “Make” something happen. The external reality is a reflection of our internal reality which is why this is our focus.
Let Go: Detach from the outcome. Embody and enjoy the feelings of already having your desire…this may be feelings of joy, bliss contentment or it may just be dropping the lack KNOWING it is already done and living your life.
Trust that its done. When you detach from external circumstances, you release resistance and allow your desired reality to manifest.
Stay in a state of LOVE: Practice gratitude for the love you already have in your life. Gratitude aligns you with the frequency of love.
Conclusion
Manifesting love for a specific person is entirely possible. By understanding and applying the principles of manifestation, you can attract the love you desire into your life. Remember, you are the creator of your reality. Every possible version of every person exists right now, and it’s your beliefs and assumptions that determine the reality you experience. Embrace your power, focus on what you desire, and watch as your reality transforms in beautiful ways.